well, most people would agree that silence is gold. It really depends on a more economic term. Well, certain things are to be spelt out and keeping silent doesn't mean everything can be solved automatically. If there is misunderstanding present, communication is definitely needed. Keeping silent, in this case does not help a single bit. Maybe one feels that keeping silent and not talking means that everything is alright but you are just an ostrich, a coward. Everything will get worse in the end. Friends might start dao-ing you and lots more bad things might happen. by the way, to add on right, rumours seriously sucks!! BIG TIME! anyway, i'm not blogging about myself but what i observe around. Things are changing. Everything is just not like before when everyone is a big happy family. Maybe knowing each other better doesn't means it's better. More problems might surface and misunderstandings can exist.